when i was a senior in high school my mom found out on valentines day that she had breast cancer. i was 17. it was terrifying. i wondered if she would see me graduate, get married and meet my children one day-thank God she has done all of those things! she had surgery, did chemo & radiation and is cancer free to this day. it was a long, hard road. she was a single mom of 2-my older sister already off to college, so i was the only one at home with her. she worked just about everyday through the entire process, i have no idea how she did it! i remember things about her journey through cancer like how she’d take off her hair when she got home because it was summertime & her wig was hot & itchy. how sometimes very late at night, when she was finally ready to eat something after a whole day of hugging the toilet she would call me and ask me to go to the store and get things to make her a dinner of sour kraut & hot dogs-at 3am. i remember getting a slight fever a few times which made me stay away from our home for a few days so that i wouldn’t make her sick. i remember her drinking ensure & going to braum’s to get a banana milk shake to ease her raw throat. i was happy to do everything i could for her and looking back i’m not sure that i was much help. a month after her treatment ended i, myself had a bit of a scare with a lump…it turned out to be a fibroadenoma, but thank God i found it before it became something else!
fast forward a few years…
i move to durango and start a photography business. i meet jen, & a bunch of other amazing mommies, and join their mommy & me group. i go to a baby shower where i meet tammy. she is very friendly & familiar with her sweet, gentle way & southern accent-you aren’t human if you don’t love tammy! a few months later tammy is diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer while struggling to nurse her newest pride & joy, baby girl brooklyn faith. at the young age of 34 this was not expected! i ask tammy if i can record her experiences with an all-access pass to her journey as she fights this thing. tammy & her family accept.
here we go, you’re invited too…
our group went to her home before she started her first round of chemo to have a pizza party & shower her with gifts…
















also friends…october is breast cancer awareness month…check yourself!!!
























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